By admin / Jan 18
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Did you know that up to 70% of young adults living with mental health problems report that the symptoms started in childhood?
So why is your mental health so important?
Mental health is an essential part of your overall health. Just as physical fitness helps your body to stay strong, mental fitness helps you maintain a state of good mental health. Mental health is more than just the absence of mental illness. It’s a state of well-being.
When you are mentally healthy, you enjoy your life and environment, and the people in it. You can be creative, learn, try new things, and take risks. You are able to cope with difficult times.
It’s important to be aware of your mental health. Without awareness, it’s difficult to pinpoint why you are so stressed or having problems coping.
Having positive mental health means you are able to:
Have you ever felt:
A lot of young people experience these feelings and they can be overpowering at times. But once you acknowledge that you might have a mental health issue, you can get the help and support you need, and feel like yourself again.
Tips for positive mental health2
Have positive, respectful relationships with family and friends.
Talk to people you trust when you’re feeling down or stressed.
Learn some ways to relax and cope. Choose safe and healthy ways to deal with negative feelings – like going for a walk or listening to music.
Practice positive self-talk. Don’t be so hard on yourself. We all make mistakes.
Do things you enjoy.
Eat healthy foods, be active and get enough sleep.
Help others – it will make you feel good too.
Make informed decisions about alcohol and drugs.
Finding your support system
The first steps are always the toughest, but knowing where to look for help is a good start. Here are some places where you can begin:
Go online and find out about reputable, confidential mental health resources. Many provincial governments or community agencies across Canada offer anonymous telephone or web chat services.
Borrow books, videos and audio books on mental wellbeing and mental illness.
Family and friends:
Share your feelings with family and friends, and let them be part of your team. If you belong to a faith group, talk with someone you can confide in.
Attend workshops and education sessions hosted in community centres, agencies, schools, colleges and universities.
Talk to a school counselor, teacher or the principal of your school.
Check out community mental health clinics or contact mental health organizations.
Talk to your family doctor. He/she is a great resource and can link you to other professionals, if needed.
For parents/caregivers: How they and others can support your mental health
The journey from child to adult can be complex and challenging. Young people often feel tremendous pressure to succeed at school, at home and in social groups. At the same time, they may lack the life experience to know that difficult situations will not last forever. Parents/caregivers and other adult role models can help young people manage their mental health and navigate this time of dramatic change by:
Developing positive relationships:
Taking the time to learn about a young person’s individual interests and sharing in activities can help build bonds that can be conducive to open communication. As a young person develops their identity, non-judgmental and supportive relationships are critical, particularly in difficult times.
Engaging youth in developing leadership:
Young people have strengths that can be encouraged through opportunities to problem solve,
make decisions and organize activities and events. Providing youth a directing role can help them gain
new skills and celebrate successes.
Giving emotional support:
Listening to a young person should be active, not reactive. Ask questions to help them sort through
their feelings, rather than reacting immediately with your own thoughts. This can create a safe space for
a young person to explore their emotions and thoughts. Watch for difficulties in coping and signs that additional support may be needed.
Modeling self-care and help-seeking when a personal problem arises:
Parents/caregivers can reflect on ways in which they can reduce their own stress and find support for their own mental health. These may include participating in recreation activities, learning a new skill or sharing household tasks. Developing supportive relationships and seeking help from other adults can set a
good example for young people.
Signs and symptoms of possible youth mental health problems:
Abuse of drugs and/or alcohol.
Changes in school performance, falling grades.
Inability to cope with daily problems and activities.
Changes in sleeping and/or eating habits.
Excessive complaints of physical problems.
Missing a lot of school, stealing, damaging property or problems with the law.
Low self-esteem and negative body image.
Prolonged feelings of unhappiness and thoughts of selfharm or death.
Uncontrollable outbursts of anger.